Can someone please explain? Thanks

Posted by struth on Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 06:20 Bali Time:

What is it with having a ‘Bali son' can anyone please explain, without getting on a high horse? I feel it may be a controversial topic and I might offend, but its not mean to be offensive.

Why does it have to be a Bali son ? Why cant they just be a good friend from Bali? Their real parents did the hard work, why do you feel that you have to adopt someone else's child?

This term has bothered me for a while and I have asked a few good Bali mates about their Aussie mums with all admitting they have more than one and hey why not, if there are these chicks wanting to be someone's mum then why not work it. Do Aussie mums usually know they aren't the only one?

Also why are Bali sons more popular, haven't read many, if any, posts about a Bali daughter? Bit sexist to me.

Flame all you like it doesn't both me but please dont be so aggro that the post is deleted. Its just lately there have been a few posts about bali sons and I am just trying to understand the need to have a bali child. Thanks

Follow Ups:

I'm with you Struth eom MissD Monday, 16. March 2009 at 11:54 Bali Time (0)
mm!!!!!dont get it do you!!!!!! saronggirl Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 14:33 Bali Time (2)
- settle petal or is your '!' button stuck struth Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 15:05 Bali Time (0)
- forgot to mention saronggirl Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 14:37 Bali Time (0)
Great discussion - thanks everyone struth Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 12:23 Bali Time (1)
- the last time dennisc Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 12:57 Bali Time (0)
Just a figure of speech. Baldie Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 11:47 Bali Time (0)
Gary D masuraka Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 11:17 Bali Time (0)
Ruth dennisc Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 10:55 Bali Time (1)
- 'Oh grow up Dennis' struth Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 12:25 Bali Time (0)
your funny SIR FIN Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 09:29 Bali Time (0)
Afterthought, a light note Hillary Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 08:12 Bali Time (1)
- I have to confess to having a Bali son.. Ginanz Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 08:57 Bali Time (0)
i was wondering too jfb Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 07:53 Bali Time (0)
maybe it cintabali Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 07:32 Bali Time (1)
- Respect bali4ever Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 08:44 Bali Time (0)
"Bali Mum" didee Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 07:25 Bali Time (6)
- most Balinese dennisc Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 10:50 Bali Time (4)
  - sorry Hillary dennisc Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 10:53 Bali Time (3)
    - Den, it is obvious that you bloodyron Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 12:14 Bali Time (2)
      - hahahaha! You are a funny man ... eom struth Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 12:27 Bali Time (1)
        
        Intellectual Ron Perawan Malu Tuesday, 17. March 2009 at 17:11 Bali Time (0)
- Probably can't remember your name edward Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 08:01 Bali Time (0)
Urban myth Penne Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 07:17 Bali Time (0)
I'm wondering if it got started Hillary Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 07:16 Bali Time (7)
- Hillary Countess Lisl Von Schlaf Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 16:16 Bali Time (1)
  - No, agreed, but once the translation Hillary Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 17:06 Bali Time (0)
- Also in the village Noviantini Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 11:57 Bali Time (0)
- Spot on. Our staff have always addressed Rangatira Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 09:13 Bali Time (3)
  - Ibu = Mother GaryD Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 09:43 Bali Time (2)
    - yes,Mom or Mum trisha Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 11:16 Bali Time (1)
      - I use Ibu with all females CharlieBaliBear Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 19:26 Bali Time (0)
Good on you LostinTranslation Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 06:46 Bali Time (3)
- Hmmmm melbmeg Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 06:57 Bali Time (2)
  - I think it fills a hole Aly Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 07:19 Bali Time (1)
    - Not from me..eom Bokito Sunday, 15. March 2009 at 19:13 Bali Time (0)