I can't help it, but all this advice on good manners for westerners has prompted me to post this. I too follow most already mentioned and try my best not to culturally offend the Balinese/Indonesians whilst holidaying in their country. But I think its time someone told them that most westerners don't like being grabbed or stopped in the street to be pressured into buying some thing. I know things are tough, but enough with the grabbing!