In Reply to: Thanks SJJ posted by Pokergal on Wednesday, 11. July 2012 at 10:45 Bali Time:
best not to take rice, maybe a nice bottle of spirits. last time we went to a new addition to the home ceremony we made Margaritas, once the formalities are over its about having fun.
I think you should look more in to what you wear. I would only ever attend a ceremony in traditional clothes. If you don't have any then wear a sarong and a nice blouse. You will feel very out of place if you are dressed in Western clothing.