In Reply to: Sad story posted by amba on Friday, 23. September 2005 at 13:03 Bali Time:
goes out to you and this special young man's family and friends.
Amba, I can only try to imagine how difficult this must be for you, especially with being so far away.
As everyone else has said, there is no right or wrong way to deal with this - just do whatever you need to, to get through the next day, the next hour, or even the next minute if that's what it takes.
Remember, be gentle with yourself, and accept the offers of support from those who love you.
When the time is right I'm sure your heart will lead you to where you need to be, and what you need to do, in order to say a special farewell to the man you love.
Kindest regards
Jo