In Reply to: Sad story posted by amba on Friday, 23. September 2005 at 13:03 Bali Time:
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, my first serious boyfriend died in a car accident when I was 19, we had been together for two years, so I have some idea how you must be feeling. If you would like to talk to me about it, I would be happy to give you my email.
I think it's up to you to decide about going in January.. It will be very hard as Bali holds so many memories for you, but maybe it will help you grieve. Meeting his family and talking with his friends can also be helpful. I know when someone close to you dies, people tend to avoid talking to you about it, when sometimes its what you really need to do.
Good luck, and I can promise you that time will help with healing. You are in for a very rough time, but I promise you that you will feel happiness again.