In Reply to: Sad story posted by amba on Friday, 23. September 2005 at 13:03 Bali Time:
you can find some closure then, visit with his cousin and family, find out what happened and find someway of saying good bye. Not easy from so far away but being there, although it will be hard, and no doubt the most emotional journey of your life, if you think its something you need to do, do it. Nothing worse than grieving on your own.
I am so sorry for the loss especially when you werent there to say good bye. Find someone to talk too, family, friend even a doctor, Even here! noone should have to deal with the loss of a loved one alone.
Hang in there, and dont worry if you get emotional, you need to!