.....wow what a year this has been and it's only March!!!! First brother in law passed away suddenly in January, then Dad fell and broke his hip and is not doing so well, visited him in hospital and was so upset as he has resigned himself to the fact that he probably won't be coming home and on the way home from hospital wrote my car off. Was thinking that I must have some really bad karma going! But then I put it in perspective, had my 2 boys in the car and we all walked away with just a few seatbelt bruises, 1 son has whiplash and I have a swollen bruised nose from the airbags but it could have been so much worse, even the cop at the scene said that we were very lucky and then the insurance guy who assessed the car today said he can't believe we walked away relatively unhurt. I was feeling sorry for myself wondering why me but now I am just so grateful that my boys were not hurt and we are all still alive. Can't wait for my trip to Bali in May assuming nothing else goes wrong before then!!!!