In Reply to: We had all that::-)) posted by luvthe Northern Territory on Tuesday, 7. June 2011 at 19:05 Bali Time:
Why not give the person the money equal to all the costs for a visit? I am sure he can make something really useful of that, at home and this is absoulutely better than a three weeks visit. For what? Is it just for you to show off what you have?
Eventually he will think it is a waste of money. He may even, upon returning, feeling depressed and useless for not having all what you have at home.