In Reply to: Balinese traditional wedding posted by Pedrow on Tuesday, 16. February 2010 at 16:57 Bali Time:
Money is usually a good present. We went to a Balinese wedding 2 years ago and it was amazing. We put money in an envelope and left it with the rest of the gifts. As for protocol the wedding we went to the people were all very welcoming and didn't expect us to understand their customs. We (my son, daughter and myself) had decided we wanted to show respect and wore traditional Balinese outfits. The girls wore a kebaya and sarong with a sash and my son wore a sarong, button up jacket and head scarf type thing. The kids borrowed their outfits from the uncle and aunt of the bride and I had mine made in a shop in Legian as nothing they had would fit.
You will have a great day and fond memories for years to come. Enjoy!