In Reply to: Reading posted by Cracker on Monday, 27. July 2009 at 18:28 Bali Time:
i didn't realise that getting someone to hellp with children was such an issue. I hope the people who are so convinced that this is bad parenting don't ever have to use anyone outside the parents to look after or help them with their children. That would definately be a unthinkable! anyway i have got some good advice out of this so to those that gave some positives and helped thank you :)