In Reply to: Here's a serious thought or you posted by Fiona on Wednesday, 22. July 2009 at 16:01 Bali Time:
I wrote my opinion of your opinion of an establishment I have personally had dealings with on serious health issues with my husband. You had no problem with denegrating BIMC on an open forum for what you saw happening, but do you know the whole facts of the case?
You say you are only telling what you saw. But things are not always as they seem, or as you may assume them to be.
Do you know what the actual diagnosis of the condition with this woman was? Do you know why the staff attending her saw fit to restrain her as they did, was it for her own saftey or something they just did to fill in time? If the woman was not in a coma, why should they have placed her in a coma position?
Why did your post not give any of this information? Or is it ok that you draw your own conclusions and freely post away. If you could have offered any of that information I may have agreed with your post and not bothered to reply.
You now tell me that I do not know your morals, ethics or anything else.
You set the tone to the responses you got, and when you did not like mine, you then speculated more, and accused me of being affiliated with BIMC. Did you think that would warrant you more credibility if you could accuse me of doing something you have surmised but is not true. You insinuated that I was being paid to post as I did to discredit my personal experience and you tell me now that you would and have never spoken to anyone on this forum the way that I imagine I have the right to speak to you. Now you also assume to know that I have feelings of hate towards you.
I think you should re-evaluate that statement. I have no emotions towards you at all, again you are surmising.
I think a little bit more information on why all these decisions were made and carried out by the staff would have helped your post being more understandable.
Also, please do not worry yourself about the poor people you again presume have the fortune to be placed at my disposal and suffer because of it. To start with, it is not "fortunate", as you have said, that any of them find themselves where they are and with the problems that they have, but we make sure it is fortunate that they are given every opportunity to improve their lives when they leave us. Your concern for them is appreciated though.