In Reply to: lots posted by Chris on Sunday, 22. July 2007 at 19:32 Bali Time:
if it's not acceptable at home, then it's not acceptable when you're away.
Our son is 15 and I wouldn't even consider sending him off to a pub or nightclub ....at home or away.
Everyone has a different opinion though and it is up to yourself and the other parents what you are comfortable with.