In Reply to: Need cheering up!!! posted by Kayzee on Saturday, 4. February 2006 at 19:59 Bali Time:
In my short time on this earth (46yrs) I have developed this motto. I do not lend or give anyone anything that I am not prepared to get back. I then don't get disappointed or upset when things are returned damaged or things/money are not given back. So, my suggestion is if you are prepared to give away 5 million Rp go ahead if not say "sorry I can't lend you the money". This rule has worked fine for me as I am proactive about my choice rather than reactive. Good luck & I hope this helps