In Reply to: I do agree but posted by amba on Friday, 23. September 2005 at 14:54 Bali Time:
for me to cope i find it better if out of site out of mind...no photo's up and as far away from memories as possible until i am ready.(I lost parents)
For a friend of mine to cope she has to have everything in front of her, photo's and the like and even has a shrine (she lost a daughter).
Different for every person and you will cope the way your body and mind wants you to cope with loss.
I wish you well.