In Reply to: brisbane posted by ella_oz on Thursday, 22. September 2005 at 11:56 Bali Time:
yeah were in Perth I was going to say we could organise a get together with all us girls in the same position!!
I have emailed her so the best thing I suggested is to get her to contact as many people in the same position as possible she will gain mountains of knowledge and make up her own mind!! also the little bali/aussie community she will find will offer her support and make her feel as if she's not alone and not the only one away from the one they love.
I probably wouldnt recommend paying for her to go back to bali asap as such..... one thing that happens in these relationships is that your daughter needs to remove to rose tinted glasses. If she has to work and earn her way back there then it will make her thing ' god is he worth it'
I knew one girl whos mum paid for her to go all the time and she was really sooooooo in love and picking babies names after coming home after her umptenth time to Bali she met a aussie guy and dumped him.
Be there for support but not as a atm.
thats my thoughts anyways