In Reply to: help please!! posted by ella_oz on Wednesday, 21. September 2005 at 14:59 Bali Time:
I'm in one of those relationships actually!! we've been together since August 2004. I try and get to Bali every couple of months to see him and hopefully he will be in Perth for xmas and we will then start proceedings for the ahhh dare I say it fiance visa!
My parents were very unsupportive at first VERY unsupportive.... what I found is that there negativitaty made me more determined to make it work!!
but thankfully they have done a complete 180 on the situation maybe because they saw me battle a mild case of depression and saw what a trip to Bali done to my spirits but since then my mum has even inrolled in a tafe class to learn indonesian with me and my dad has booked them there first bali trip to come and meet him!! I'm really proud of them !
they have gone from dear god it will never work he probably says that to all the girls blah blah blah to oh have you heard from eric oh I cant wait for cappacino ( as they call em) grand kids)
I also know many unsucessful and sucessful cases.
How old is your daughter??
If you or her need someone to chat or quiz as the case may be feel free
theres actually a pretty big community of us girls in perth who get together and offer support and there ages range from 18 - 35 so shes not alone.