In Reply to: thanks for that everyone, am better posted by inmyblood on Monday, 27. June 2005 at 13:46 Bali Time:
When we have to let our Indonesian friends know that we can not always help them out. As adviced by another forum member if in doubt - strike out... it may seem harsh but they will still get by.
All of us like to help freely when we can but, when a person asks out right more than once we have to think twice. At times it is important to let our Indonesian friends know that we also have problems in our lives and times and there are times when we -- have to go without.