Thank you all that have responded to the thread below.
Maybe I should have posted this thread down lower but I thought it may drop off. So here it is.
OK now I have a bit of an idea of where to go to donate. As well as the smallish size clothes and toys we will be taking, I will probably visit Makro and buy some rice, noodles, pencils, books, crayons, etc (dont know what else - Filo - I think you offered to help me out here) also.
We also want to have our little blokes, 3.5 years, learn a bit about this experience and give them something to maybe reflect on - later in life. I don't know how they will go when handing over there little trikes, that they have outgrowen, to someone else.
I guess we will have to deal will that when it happens.
Thanx in advance for any help